So Tommy and I had our date. It was great and I am so glad that I went. I am also glad that I met him.

When my mom first saw him, she looked his outfit up and down and and the look on her face when she saw his combat boots was priceless. She looked at him as if he is the anti-Christ come to life.

We went to the mall and got in a lot of walking. He was proving to me that I can eat 'junk food' from time to time and not gain any weight.

Then we went and had a coco loco at a coffee shop in the mall before we headed over to Hot Topic to do some shopping. It was the first time I have ever shopped in that store, but it has become my favorite store and I can't wait to go back.

After that we went to Chic Filet for dinner. We then left the mall and went to a club in Vallejo in a really bad neighborhood, which is where we are in the picture (it is actually in the back room of that club). We watched several bands perform and then he took me home and by the time we got bac to Fairfield, it was after one in the morning, but I had a lot of fun.

He kissed me goodnight and then he left. I got in the house to find my mom had waited up for me. She was mad at me for staying out so late and saying good girls don't stay out all night like that. I am 33 years old and she is acting as if I am still this little teenage girl. It is getting annoying as hell. She said that if I was under age, she wouldn't have let me out the door with him.

The only thing left to do is to get my mom and Tommy talking to each other and getting to know one another because I don't think either one of them is going to be out of my life anytime soon, so they need to learn to get along with one another if this is going to work, so that is what I have been working on.

On Mother's day Tommy came over to celebrate it with us since his mom had to work. I was worried about it, but I think that my mom and Tommy actually talked and they got along great. It surprised Tommy because he said that most moms don't like him. He wore his combat boots again and the outfit he planned to wear Monday to get out of jury duty (it did the trick and he doesn't have to do jury duty today, so he got to go to work, which is good because he needs the money to pay his car payment and cell phone bill).

When it came time for him to go, I asked him if it would be okay for me to walk him out. He turned to the side and I don't think he noticed that I noticed, but he smiled and mouthed the word, "Yes". When we got outside, he held me in his arms for the longest time and it felt great. Actually it felt perfect. When he was kissing me bye, I realized something. I think I am falling in love with Tommy. I can't wait to see him agian and I know it will be soon.

Before I forget, the first picture is a picture of me from behind and my new hair color (I can't wait till the excess skin is removed so I don't look so huge anymore).